Writer’s Quote Wednesday – Joss Whedon

Writer’s Quote Wednesday is organised by Colleen from Silver Threading, and is a wonderful weekly series in which bloggers share the quotes which inspire them. I highly recommend checking them out.

Joss Whedon

I like this quote, and to a certain extent, I write for many of the same reasons. It certainly gives me strength, and a sense of freedom; a way to understand and interpret the world around me.

I wasΒ aΒ confident, happyΒ child. I remember being happy, and I have photographic evidence – IΒ always had a big, beaming smile on my face. I’m not going to lie to you, I loved being the centre of attention; loved meeting people, talking to people, entertaining people. I loved the world around me in general. Then as a teenager I was abducted by aliens and during the experimentation processΒ I lost that side of my nature. Well, it was either aliens, or puberty – one or the other. I became an introvert overnight and withdrew into myself. It’s hard for me to remember what it was like to hear the characters in my head when I was a child, because I know that I did. I wrote poems, stories, plays, anything I could, to feed my creative side. But I didn’t shut out the world. That came later. I didn’t lose everything. I’m still quick to smile, still quick to trust and I love entertaining people, only now it’s through my words.

I find it interesting that, as an interpreter, I’m often front and centre; in a classroom, on a stage, in a meeting, and I’m extremely confident in my skills.Β It doesn’t phase me, butΒ then the reason is pretty simple.Β It’s a role I step into.Β Writing on the other hand, feels like the real me. So while I can appreciate what Josh means when he talks about creating characters, those roles he gets to play if only in fiction,Β for me it’s also about showing who I truly am.

What about you? Why do you write? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Thanks for stopping by. Until next time.

Mel

36 responses to “Writer’s Quote Wednesday – Joss Whedon”

  1. callummclaughlin Avatar

    A brilliant quote and an equally wonderful little insight into your mindset πŸ™‚ I suppose I write fiction to create things, and poetry to understand things.

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      Thank you, Callum. You certainly help others to understand, and appreciate things through your words – it’s a wonderful gift to share with others πŸ˜€

      1. callummclaughlin Avatar

        That’s such a lovely thing to say. Thank you, Mel πŸ™‚

      2. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        You’re welcome. Credit where it’s due πŸ˜€

  2. Jacqui Murray Avatar

    Nice. I’ve never heard of Joss Whedon. That could fit me, but I think I write more to get the voices in my head to shut the f*** up!

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      lol – I like that!

  3. Olga Avatar

    Thanks for sharing that quote. It made me think that there are probably so many subtle variation of reasons why we humans turn to writing for self-expression. Some write to change the world, some write to entertain, some write to tell their story and the list goes on and on. I write because it brings me joy.

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      Thanks, Olga πŸ™‚ Writing brings me joy too. I can’t imagine life without the wonderful characters in my head!

  4. wendyannedarling Avatar

    Wow, Melissa!

    This one got my wheels turning… both the quote and your post! I’ve got 2 daughters who love nearly everything Whedon’s been a part of – and then, there’s me. Me who can be so very full of words which overflow out of my head onto the page but rarely out of my mouth and into others’ ears.

    I think I write because I am emotionally strangled. Thank God I have a computer and can type!

    Thanks for a great post!

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      Thank you so much, Wendy. I have two daughters as well, though I’m the Joss Whedon fan in the family! I dragged them along to the Avengers movies, and they didn’t protest so maybe I’m rubbing off on them!

      I can completely relate to your writing experience. Words pour onto the page far easier than they do from my lips. It’s a blessing though, and one which has its own rewards because I get to connect with people who understand πŸ˜€

      1. wendyannedarling Avatar

        I recently started watching ‘Buffy’ on Netflix – at the insistence of my youngest daughter, but I may have to stop… man, am I having some weird dreams! πŸ˜€ Trouble is, I only watch at night, before I go to sleep.

      2. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        I love all that stuff, but I know what you mean. It’s never a good idea to watch such shows at night…not with a writers overactive imagination!

  5. Silver Threading Avatar
    Silver Threading

    Mel, what an excellent quote and your commentary was fabulous. Now, I know what happened to those 4 daughters of ours! When they hit puberty they abducted by aliens too!!! LOL. Isn’t it interesting how we tend to withdraw inside ourselves in order to bring out our creativity? I am always amazed and I seem to get more and more introverted as I age. Interesting. I can really relate to this quote. Wow. Powerful!! ❀

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      Thank you, Colleen. It means a lot that you understand. I think we do withdraw into ourselves, and for a number of reasons. You made me chuckle about your daughters. I am still in awe of the fact you raised four daughters and a son. My girls are my absolute pride and joy, but those teenage years…they’re rough on mother and daughter both! I’m glad you liked the quote ❀

      1. Silver Threading Avatar
        Silver Threading

        Mel, all this grey hair is a direct result of 5 kids! LOL! I totally understand. Just make sure to come out and visit once in a while. I would miss your company. πŸ˜€

      2. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        Ha! It’s the colour of hard-work, dedication and heaps of joy πŸ˜‰ I’ll always make time for my friends, especially those who accept and understand that I spend a little too much time in my own world! ❀

  6. Vashti Quiroz-Vega Avatar

    Great quote! So relatable. I write for so many of the same reasons. πŸ˜€

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      Thank you. I love that as a community we can relate to each other’s experiences and find a kinship πŸ™‚

      1. Vashti Quiroz-Vega Avatar

        That’s the best part of blogging. At least for me. πŸ™‚

      2. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        For me too πŸ˜€

  7. Celine Jeanjean Avatar

    That’s a great quote from Joss Whedon!
    I write in part because writing is when I am the happiest by far, but I also write to connect with people through my stories.

    By the way I tagged you in a challenge to make a list of your ten favourite film characters if you fancied taking part — thought you’d find it fun πŸ™‚

    10 Favourite Screen Characters

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      It is rather great, isn’t it! Thanks for sharing your own reasons for writing.

      And thank you for the tag. I do love my movies! πŸ˜€

  8. Silver Threading Avatar
    Silver Threading

    I just noticed that you took away the “like” button. I am thinking of doing the same thing. How has that worked for you?

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      It’s still there, but it’s not easy to find! For some reason the post theme puts it right at the top on the left hand side in its own widget area. I haven’t had as many likes, but more comments – so I might keep the theme for a while (though I’m not sure I like it) and test it out a little longer πŸ˜€

      1. Silver Threading Avatar
        Silver Threading

        I like your theme. I might try it out myself. πŸ™‚ I really think I want to ditch the like button. πŸ˜€

      2. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        It will be interesting to see what happens. Thanks for the feedback on the theme – sometimes they take me a while to get used to and other times I don’t use them properly. But I’m getting better at formatting πŸ˜€

      3. Silver Threading Avatar
        Silver Threading

        I really do like yours. I might be a copy cat and copy you. I am thinking about it. ❀

      4. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        I hope you do. I love how you layout your site, and have enjoyed the changes so far, so I’m sure I’ll enjoy the next one too. You’re so creative ❀

      5. Silver Threading Avatar
        Silver Threading

        It’s those cute Bitstrip’s. I was lost before them. LOL!

      6. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        They are really cool. I like the way you use them to reflect the mood and feel of a post – huge fun ❀

      7. Silver Threading Avatar
        Silver Threading

        Thanks, Mel. πŸ’—

      8. mbarkersimpson Avatar

        My pleasure ❀

  9. Vashti Quiroz-Vega Avatar

    Hi Melissa! I love the quote. I write for those reasons and more. Writing is to me what honey is to bees. I think I take most pleasure in writing for entertainment though. Great post. πŸ˜€

    1. mbarkersimpson Avatar

      Thank you, Vashti πŸ˜€ I can completely relate to that analogy – I’m drawn to writing too. As Melissa means honey bee in Greek, perhaps writing is my nectar of choice!

      1. Vashti Quiroz-Vega Avatar

        Oh! Good one! πŸ˜‰

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